Replace your judgment with curiosity

Replace commentary with curiosity

In our 90 mph world it’s super easy to be critical.

It takes more energy to be curious. AND… it’s worth the effort.

When we replace commentary with curiosity we seek to better understand instead of instantly starting with criticism or judgment.

When we lean-in to better understand, we create connection.

Once connection is created, if you still wish to provide constructive feedback, your feedback is often now more helpful and better received.

To replacing commentary with curiosity and connecting with another one conversation at a time.


When we set down our own agenda, our own pain, our own wounds long enough to truly listen to their words, their feelings & their wounds, we participate in a conversation that heals.
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